In a dramatic reveal during the season 11 Tell All of 90 Day Fiancé, Sarper disclosed that his wife, Shekinah, kicked him out of their shared home less than a month after their wedding.
This shocking moment unfolded during part one of the Tell All, which aired on June 22, 2024. Sarper’s claim sheds light on the turmoil in their relationship shortly after tying the knot.
The Christmas Day Incident
Host Shaun Robinson opened the segment by showing a video Shekinah had sent to producers on Christmas Day, shortly after one of their many heated arguments. In the video, Shekinah shared a moment of shock as she showed Sarper’s wedding ring left on a table, claiming he had disappeared from the apartment that morning.
“It’s Christmas morning. Sarper’s usually sitting here in the morning, but he’s gone. And he left his ring,” Shekinah explained, showing the ring on the table. She also revealed that Sarper had left behind an AirTag that she had placed on his keys, saying, “Merry Christmas to us.” The video set the stage for the revelations that followed.
Sarper’s Confession: Kicked Out After 10 Days
When asked why he took off his wedding ring, Sarper admitted that Shekinah had kicked him out of the house after they had a series of “small” arguments. He explained that he spent 10 days at a rental property, which was the result of his inability to remain calm in certain situations.
“I need to be more calm, but I cannot,” Sarper confessed. “It’s not my character.” His comments suggested that their relationship had already begun to fray within a very short time of marriage, triggering emotional reactions from both parties.
Escalating Tensions and Threats
The tension between the couple continued to escalate as Shekinah shared how Sarper had made threatening comments. Shekinah claimed that Sarper had threatened to “go back to Turkey” and engage in relationships with “everyone else in the country.”
This revelation was a heavy blow to Shekinah, who felt that Sarper’s actions showed a lack of genuine love for her.
Dan, Shekinah’s friend, weighed in during the Tell All, stating that a man truly “in love” with Shekinah would never act this way. Shekinah herself echoed this sentiment, explaining, “I feel like he doesn’t truly love me if he can so easily get up and leave.”
Shekinah Opens Up About Her Fears
Before the Tell All segment, Shekinah had expressed that she and Sarper were “not on a unified front.” During her confessional, she admitted, “We’re not good. I feel like everything changed once we got married and this is just my biggest fear coming to life.”
Sarper described their relationship as a “rollercoaster,” full of emotional highs and lows. He acknowledged the strain marriage had put on him, saying it brought “new responsibilities and duties” that he was not prepared for. Sarper also admitted that being “dependent” was one of his biggest fears, and this contributed to his struggles.
Emotional Outbursts and Toxic Dynamics
The dynamic between Shekinah and Sarper continued to deteriorate as their arguments became more intense. Shekinah’s friend Dan noted that she seemed to have lost weight and was distancing herself from her friend Sarper. Dan even suggested that the relationship was unhealthy.
In an angry confrontation backstage, Sarper hurled insults at Dan, calling him a “donkey [who] sees himself as the unicorn” and compared him to a “spare tire.” Tensions boiled over as Sarper warned that he might leave Shekinah entirely, saying, “You will lose me just because of you, and you will regret it like a dog!”
Shekinah was visibly upset and tearfully responded, “You called me a dog? What’s wrong with you?” The argument continued to escalate as Sarper insulted her further, calling her “naughty” and “spoiled.”
Shekinah’s Feelings of Isolation
Throughout the Tell All, Shekinah expressed feelings of isolation and despair. She told producers, “He’s not a supportive partner, period,” and added, “I’m not okay. I’m having a moment. I feel alone.” Shekinah’s words underscored the emotional toll the relationship had taken on her.
As Sarper stormed out of the dressing room, he muttered, “She is f—— impossible.” Meanwhile, Shekinah’s frustration was palpable as she explained that Sarper “is not capable” of providing her with the emotional support she needed.
The relationship between Sarper and Shekinah on 90 Day Fiancé continues to be tumultuous, filled with emotional outbursts and deep misunderstandings. Despite their attempts to work things out, their marriage appears to be on the brink of collapse, with both parties expressing dissatisfaction and emotional exhaustion.
As the drama unfolds on screen, fans are left wondering if this couple can find a way to repair their fractured bond or if their marriage is truly beyond saving.
